-and you've just discovered you don't have to go through this hell alone.
You're an empathic woman divorcing a narcissistic man in a patriarchal society
Bad Girl
Revival
trauma-informed coaching for empathic women seeking radical support and transformation while divorcing a narcissist.
the roots of revival
In a patriarchal society that rewards narcissistic men and weaponizes systemic, financial, and cultural barriers against women, the only thing harder than staying with a narcissist is leaving.
Bad Girl Revival's mission is to stand in these gaps meant to isolate abused women and diminish our resources and power.
Whether you're just starting the divorce process, somewhere in the throes of it, or spinning your wheels on the other side, I want to help you fight the unholy war of reclaiming yourself from the narcissist and the systems that benefit from your abuse.
Get the whole-woman, exclusive service of having a personal divorce strategist and bff in one, or power up with the laser focused results and identity shifting insights of the 1:1 intensive.
BAD GIRL REVIVAL SISTER SUPPORT SERVICE
Not your standard divorce.
Not your standard support.
Bad Girl Revival is a feminist approach to divorce support. The care women receive is personal, intimate, and unpretentious.
There's nothing straight-forward or easily "figureoutable"about divorcing a psychologically abusive, manipulative, controlling man.
Get the full-blown support you *really* need but didn't know you could ask for.
Get a virtual bestie, coach, mentor, and hype girl all in one. 1:1 coaching, unlimited Voxer support (like having me in your pocket), the Dangerous Woman Intensive, and legal system guidance.
THE
DANGEROUS WOMAN
INTENSIVE
Powered by the
Energy Leadership™ Index Assessment
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a new framework and language for understanding and transforming your identity and your gifts into your liberation
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exactly how your empathy is shaping your decisions
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where you’re still abandoning yourself
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why you feel stuck even after leaving
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and what needs to shift for you to fully step into your authority
In a single session, you'll learn:
$249
RECLAIM
YOUR AUTHORITY.
YOUR AGENCY.
YOUR AUDACITY.
YOUR IDENTITY.
RESTORED
WOMEN
RESTORE
HUMANITY.
You survived a dysfunctional, chaotic marriage with a controlling, psychologically abusive man. You convinced yourself you were happy from time to time. You told yourself you stayed by choice. You doubled down on the emotional labor. You performed mental gymnastics. You sacrificed yourself to bear the pain so others wouldn't have to. You adopted the patriarchal practice of spiritual bypassing. You were love and light and good vibes only, sister.
Because you are a highly empathic woman.
You have a gift of truly connecting with and understanding the person behind the disorder... and that gift was weaponized against you. He knew you would give him grace and forgiveness. He knew you were a bottomless jar of second chances. All he had to do was *just enough* to keep you stuck in the cycle of narcissistic abuse.
No judgment. I know how hard it is to divorce a man who's doing "just enough" to activate your empathy and the cascade of conditioning that makes a woman stay with a man who isn't good enough for her in any universe, in any version of reality.
Now you're crawling out from underneath the lies that held together a dead marriage and tore you apart. You're collecting threads of truth. You're trying to put yourself back together, but differently.
Maybe you're just starting to untangle yourself from the marriage and file for divorce. You could be stuck in litigation. You might be having to navigate co-parenting nightmares, the loss of friends, disappointed family members, a smear campaign led by your ex, financial abuse, identity upheaval, and the mindf*ery of re-establishing yourself-as a survivor- in a society that consumes and profits from abused women.
You are not making this up. It's f*ing hard... especially for us women who are deeply sensitive, empathic, and processing a ton of information from our environment at all times... while trying to override a patriarchal default setting that determines our responses.
The patriarchy wants it to be damn near impossible for you to break free from the abuse, embody your authority, and discover the depth of your power. Bad Girl Revival wants to make it damn near impossible for the patriarchy to stop you.
Have a question? Want to collaborate? Connect?
Reach me at jennifer@badgirlrevival.com
THE REVIVAL
EXPERIENCE
Unfiltered accounts from inside Bad Girl Revival.
★ ★ ★ ★ ★
"Jenn is one of the rare people who will walk straight into the fog with you and cut to the core. She doesn’t dance around hard truths — she names them with clarity and conviction. Her ability to quickly see patterns, distill what’s actually happening, and give you precise language is extraordinary. She sharpens your thinking and strengthens your spine in the same conversation.
She doesn’t rescue you — she activates you. She challenges you to rise, to own your voice, and to hold boundaries with confidence and integrity. You don’t leave conversations with Jen feeling stirred up. You leave feeling awake, steady, and unmistakably clearer."
FRANCES
★ ★ ★ ★ ★
"Jenn did not save me.
Jenn walked beside me as I left a 14-year relationship and moved through the darkest years of my own soul retrieval.
She never spoke my truth for me. She never rushed my timing. She never projected her story onto mine. Instead, she anchored herself in her own embodied sovereignty and described — with clarity and unwavering precision — what emotional, physical, spiritual, and psychological safety felt like in her own body. This, ultimately, was the medicine I needed to reclaim my life.
Jenn taught me to befriend my rage and grief as sacred. I became dangerous to anything that required my silence, self-abandonment, or smallness.
Jenn witnessed my re-wilding — watched as my spine strengthened, steady, and relaxed — knowing exactly when to embrace, when to pounce, and when to walk away and towards love.
Jen is a scholar, a soul-retrieval doula, and a BADass woman who was undeniably born to meet us in this moment of transformation."
LYDIA
★ ★ ★ ★ ★
"The 'Good Girl' died before my marriage ended, but the TRUE me was born through my revival. I was once a people-pleaser who constantly diminished my own needs, diminished my accomplishments, and chose gratitude as my spiritual bypassing drug of choice. I stayed stuck even after my divorce, because I had forgotten how to pursue my desires and trust in my abilities to chase my dreams and crush my goals. Instead, I played it safe and apologized when I needed to ask anyone for anything at all. I felt constantly on edge like someone was about to call me out on being an imposter. Someone pretending to be an adult.
Now, I am unapologetically my own hype girl and finally free from the carefully calculated life of overly rationalized decisions that kept me safe.
It all started with the Energy Leadership
Index Assessment. I couldn't believe how
accurate my results were and how quickly Jenn was able to put together the pieces of my story, without much input from me.
She explained the patterns to me better than my former therapist and explained why they existed to begin with. Learning how to shift these patterns and release them from my identity came surprisingly easy with a little practice.
Jenn helped me recover the parts of myself that had been lost since my childhood. I feel more alive and bolder in my approach to life. I'm also more patient with myself and my daughter, and I'm more committed than ever before to seeing her big emotions and strong-will through eyes of admiration. I imagine her growing up without having to do this healing work, because I've done it for the both of us. Jenn has literally helped me do generational healing, and I've gotten more from our time together than I did in years' worth of therapy.
Even though she helped me identify and boot my ex's voice out of my head, I hope hers sticks around."
LINDSEY
BEYOND THE
ARCHITECTURE
OF SILENCE
Your identity wasn't lost.
The best parts of you were weaponized against you.
I know why you rationalized the abuse.
I know why you protected him.
I know why you stayed as long as you did.
I know how you convinced even yourself you were ok.
I know why it still feels like you're waiting on permission to live your life, and why you hesitate to make decisions. I know what it means to be free as a woman but not have your freedom.
With the Bad Girl Method, I'll help you retrieve and integrate all the parts of yourself into a new identity that is narcissistic-proof, bullshit proof, a little dangerous- or a lot- and fiercely authentic.
The 'Bad Girl' method is a tool for reclamation. After leaving a psychologically abusive marriage, your identity is fragmented. Your empathy runs hot, cold, gushing, bone dry. Guilt and shame drop in as unwelcome and unexpected guests. You struggle to trust your feelings, your decisions, your Self. No more of that, sis.
Reclaim your personal agency, inner authority, and the audacity to build a life where your power is non-negotiable and your existence is unapologetic.
WITH
SISTER SUPPORT
For years, you played a supporting role in your ex's greatest performance...
but your comeback energy is giving main character.
You aren't a bleeding heart idiot who owes anyone an apology, an explanation, or another sacrifice. Martyrdom is out.
You're a powerful empathic woman figuring out where the world ends and you begin. You're figuring out who you are and where you've been. You're learning to trust yourself again- to recognize the sound of your own inner voice, your own heart, your own perceptions.
At the same time, you're learning how to be on your own again. Maybe you're learning how to be a single mom, which means learning how to parallel parent with someone who retains access to you through your children. You're learning about post-separation abuse. Which friends are sticking around and which ones were quickly recruited to the dark side. You're working out logistics and working through the family court system.
Meanwhile, you're on the brink of a healing crisis, if not already in the thick of it.
You'll eventually come to understand the power of your love and your gift for understanding and truly connecting with people. At the same time, you'll finally master the narc games- although it won't stop the narcissist from attempts to break you.
The old you didn't know how to hold the full power of your gifts, and the wrong person recognized that. Your ex weaponized your empathy and grace against you, kept you trapped for years, and is banking on having access to you from now on, whenever he needs another source for narcissistic supply.
When an empathic woman learns how to harness her energy, she no longer gives her precious resources to the wrong people or places.
When you learn to receive that same love, understanding, and fierce protection that you've given to way unsafe and less deserving people, you awaken the warrior you were born to be.
You've been through hell and it's high time you learn how to properly raise it. Your ex-husband isn't the only toxic (hu)man in the world.
Make yourself the villain of his story and rewrite your own. Sister Support can help.
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