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but you might
have to raise some to
reclaim your soul.

You don't live
in matrimonial hell anymore

Bad Girl
Revival 

trauma-informed narcissistic abuse recovery coaching and
identity transformation for empathic women seeking the IDGAF sweet spot in their post-divorce era. 

THE
DANGEROUS WOMAN
INTENSIVE

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Energy Leadership Index-Assessment 

 In a single session, you'll learn: 
  • a new framework and language for understanding and transforming your identity and your gifts into your liberation

  • exactly how your empathy is shaping your decisions

  • where you’re still abandoning yourself

  • why you feel stuck even after leaving

  • and what needs to shift for you to fully step into your authority

$394

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RECLAIM
YOUR SPARK.
YOUR IDENTITY. 
YOUR AUTHORITY.
YOUR AGENCY.
YOUR AUDACITY.

You survived a dysfunctional, chaotic marriage with a controlling, psychologically abusive man. You convinced yourself you were happy from time to time.  You told yourself you stayed by choice. You doubled down on the emotional labor. You performed mental gymnastics.  You sacrificed yourself to bear the pain so others wouldn't have to. You adopted the patriarchal practice of spiritual bypassing.  You were love and light and good vibes only, sister. 

Because you are a highly empathic woman.

 

You have a gift of truly connecting with and understanding the person behind the disorder...  and that gift was weaponized against you. He knew you would give him grace and forgiveness. He knew you were a bottomless jar of second chances. All he had to do was *just enough* to keep you stuck in the cycle of narcissistic abuse.

 

No judgment. You and I both know how hard it is to divorce a man who's doing "just enough" while already carrying so much.  /sarcasm 

Now you're crawling out from underneath the lies that held together a dead marriage and tore you apart. You're collecting threads of truth. You're picking up the pieces. You're putting yourself back together... but differently. 

Who are you going to be? 

Who are you not going to be? 

The Dangerous Woman Intensive was built for women exactly like you, by a woman like you. It's been seven years since I left my narcissistic ex-husband and experienced the death of the old me. Everything I did to become the wildly authentic, untamed, fulfilled, truly loved woman I am today started with what I've packed inside The Dangerous Woman Intensive. 


I'm grateful to have walked this path alongside so many beautiful, badass women, and I'd love to walk it with you. 

 

THE REVIVAL
EXPERIENCE

Unfiltered accounts from inside Bad Girl Revival. 

★ ★ ★ ★ ★

"Jenn is one of the rare people who will walk straight into the fog with you and cut to the core. She doesn’t dance around hard truths — she names them with clarity and conviction. Her ability to quickly see patterns, distill what’s actually happening, and give you precise language is extraordinary. She sharpens your thinking and strengthens your spine in the same conversation.

 

She doesn’t rescue you — she activates you. She challenges you to rise, to own your voice, and to hold boundaries with confidence and integrity. You don’t leave conversations with Jen feeling stirred up. You leave feeling awake, steady, and unmistakably clearer."

FRANCES

★ ★ ★ ★ ★

"Jenn did not save me.

 

Jenn walked beside me as I left a 14-year relationship and moved through the darkest years of my own soul retrieval.

 

She never spoke my truth for me. She never rushed my timing. She never projected her story onto mine. Instead, she anchored herself in her own embodied sovereignty and described — with clarity and unwavering precision — what emotional, physical, spiritual, and psychological safety felt like in her own body. This, ultimately, was the medicine I needed to reclaim my life.

 

Jenn taught me to befriend my rage and grief as sacred. I became dangerous to anything that required my silence, self-abandonment, or smallness.

 

Jenn witnessed my re-wilding — watched as my spine strengthened, steady, and relaxed — knowing exactly when to embrace, when to pounce, and when to walk away and towards love.

 

Jen is a scholar, a soul-retrieval doula, and a BADass woman who was undeniably born to meet us in this moment of transformation."

LYDIA

★ ★ ★ ★ ★

"The 'Good Girl' died before my marriage ended, but the TRUE me was born through my revival.  I was once a people-pleaser who constantly diminished my own needs, diminished my accomplishments, and chose gratitude as my spiritual bypassing drug of choice. I stayed stuck even after my divorce, because I had forgotten how to pursue my desires and trust in my abilities to chase my dreams and crush my goals. Instead, I played it safe and apologized when I needed to ask anyone for anything at all. I felt constantly on edge like someone was about to call me out on being an imposter. Someone pretending to be an adult. 

 

Now, I am unapologetically my own hype girl and finally free from the carefully calculated life of overly rationalized decisions that kept me safe. 

 

Jenn helped me recover the parts of myself that had been lost since my childhood. I feel more alive and bolder in my approach to life. I'm also more patient with myself and my daughter, and I'm more committed than ever before to seeing her big emotions and strong-will through eyes of admiration. I imagine her growing up without having to do this healing work, because I've done it for the both of us. Jenn has literally helped me do generational healing, and I've gotten more from our time together than I did in years' worth of therapy.

 

Even though she helped me identify and boot my ex's voice out of my head, I hope hers sticks around."

LINDSEY

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BEYOND THE
ARCHITECTURE
OF SILENCE

Your identity wasn't lost.

The best parts of you were weaponized against you. 

I know why you rationalized the abuse.

I know why you protected him. 

I know why you stayed as long as you did.

I know  how you convinced even yourself you were ok.

I know why it still feels like you're waiting on permission to live your life, and why you hesitate to make decisions. I know what it means to be free as a woman but not have your freedom. 

With the Bad Girl Method, I'll help you retrieve and integrate all the parts of yourself into a new identity that is narcissistic-proof,  bullshit proof, a little dangerous- or a lot- and fiercely authentic. 

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The 'Bad Girl' method is a tool for reclamation. After leaving a psychologically abusive marriage, your identity is fragmented. Your empathy runs hot, cold, gushing, bone dry. Guilt and shame drop in as unwelcome and unexpected guests. You struggle to trust your feelings, your decisions, your Self. No more of that, sis. 

Reclaim your personal agency, inner authority, and the audacity to build a life where your power is non-negotiable and your existence is unapologetic.

THE RECLAMATION STARTS HERE 

For years, you played a supporting role in your ex's greatest performance...

but your comeback energy is giving main character. 

You aren't a bleeding heart idiot who owes anyone an apology, an explanation, or another sacrifice. 

You're a powerful empathic woman who is learning to trust herself again and learning how to wield the power of her fierce love and gift of understanding others

-by learning how to receive that same love, understanding, and fierce protection that you gave your undeserving, toxic, narcissistic ex. 

The old you didn't know how to hold the full power of your gifts, and the wrong person recognized that. Your ex weaponized your empathy and grace against you, kept you trapped for years, and is banking on having access to you from now on, whenever he needs another source for narcissistic supply.

The new you isn't available for games, niceties, or anything that insults your intelligence and value. That doesn't just go for your ex... 

Your new identity is that of a woman who has been through hell and discovered that it had nothing on the hell that she's capable of raising... should anyone think otherwise. 

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jennifer@badgirlrevival.com

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DANGEROUS WOMAN INTENSIVE 
You've left the marriage, the long-term relationship, but the chaos and control hasn't left you. 

You feel somewhat relieved but not free. 

You despise your ex but find yourself still protecting him, making excuses for him, and empathizing with him... because you are empathic and deeply feeling to the core.

You feel guilty at the most random times, sometimes wondering if you've been overly dramatic about the abuse you endured. 

You feel personally responsible for all the pain you've caused people who are hurt by your marriage/long-term relationship ending. 

You need tons of therapy, but you don't have time to wait on those results. 

You don't know how to navigate old friendships with mutual friends, maintain boundaries while you're finding your footing, or respond to the people who have either ghosted you or acted a little too righteous and entitled. 

You feel ashamed, embarrassed, like a failure, or a fraud... like you've let people down by having a failed marriage/relationship.

Meanwhile, you're still trying to figure out what you like to eat, what kind of decor feels most like you, what kind of clothes feel good on your body these days, and how to stop living your life like you're about to owe someone an apology or explanation. 

If this is you, you're ready for some intensive identity work. 

You can heal more effectively and efficiently once you understand how your identity was formed, what identities are and are not, and what you need to do to transform your identity to fit the circumstances. You were never meant to be any one woman, sister. You were meant to be all the versions of you. Unapologetically. 

The Dangerous Woman Intensive is customized to meet you exactly where you are. It's designed to identify what's holding you back and where you're still self-abandoning, even if you're unaware that you are. 

It uncovers what's beneath the story, the years of confusion, the untold sacrifices, the grief, and even the anger. It reveals the energy and the intimate dance between its movement and your experience of the world around you. This is where the core of transformation takes place. 


Make the most of your post-divorce era. 
Get your revenge body identity. 
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